Showing posts with label Recipe For Love. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Recipe For Love. Show all posts

Thursday, September 5, 2013

Dahilan ng Break-ups


Dahilan ng Break-ups.

MISUNDERSTANDINGS- yung feeling na ang liit-liit ng problema, papalakihin pa. Bakit hindi nlang intindihin yung sitwasyon diba?

IKAW LANG ANG NAGMAMAHAL- yung tipong sinagot ka lang niya dahil naaawa siya sayo pero walang LOVE at kahit na anong pilit mo, hindi niya magawang suklian yang pagmamahal mo.

THIRD PARTY- eto madalas ang dahilan ng break-ups. YUNG TIPONG MY Bf/Gf ka na tapos hahanap ka pa ng iba. Tapos ung third party naman papatulan ka.

SAWA NA- yung tipong araw-araw kayo nag- aaway hanggang sa pareho na kayong sumuko at i-give up ang relasyon nyo.

SELOS AND DOUBT- yung feeling na PATI KAIBIGAN mo PINAGSESELOSAN NIYA, na porket sweet daw, eh KAIBIGAN yun eh dba? tapos sasabihin mo LAYUAN niya yung kaibigan niya? PINAPALAKI niyo lang ang problema kahit di naman talaga dapat problemahin.

INCOMPATIBILITY SA UGALI- oo nagkasundo nga kayo sa interests niyo kaya nagkagustuhan kayo, pero sa ugali? Dapat kasi bago kayo pumasok sa relasyon, UGALI muna bago ITSURA ang tingnan niyo. para walang BREAK-UPS na nangyayare.

KAWALAN NG ORAS- yung parating busy. Na halos talagang wala nang oras para sayo. Ni hi o hello di nya magawa. kung mgiging busy ka lng din, NAG-BF/GF ka pa?



Tuesday, June 19, 2012

Stages of Move-On




                                           Stages of Move-On

1.Pain-      Natural lang naman na masaktan at umiyak ka pagkatapos ng break-up. Nagpapatunay lang yan na nagmahal ka talaga.

2.Anger-      Hindi mo naman maikakaila na galit ka sa kanya kasi iniwan ka niya. Ayos lang naman magalit pero wag sobra, pero mas okay din kung yung galit mo dadaanin mo nalang sa iyak kesa kimkimin mo mas okay yun atleast nababawasan yung sakit at galit na nararamdaman mo.

3.Bargaining-      sabi lang toh ni Papa jack :). Eto na daw yung time na naghihintay at umaasa ka pa din na babalik sya sayo kahit alam mong malabo na kasi may mahal na siyang iba.

4.Acceptance-       Eto na yung last stage. Dito muna talaga mari-realize na wala na talaga kayo. Kaya wala ka ng ibang magagawa kundi tanggapin yun kasi no choice kana nga >.<. 

                          Pero darating din naman yung time na mawawala na talaga yung feelings mo para sa kanya kung ikaw mismo ang gagawa ng paraan para mangyari yun.

•Ang pagmumove-on kasi nasa tao yan, bakit kapa magtatanong sa iba kung panu mo sya makakalimutan kung alam mo naman talaga sa sarili mo kung pano diba?. 

Tsaka hindi ka talaga makakamove-on kung lagi mong binabalikan yung mga bagay na konektado sa kanya.

Kung iniwan ka man niya dahil nagmahal siya ng iba. Wag kang umiyak ng umiyak, magmove-on ka at ipakita mo sa kanya na naging maayos kapa din nung iniwan ka niya [revenge lang haha >:)] 

pero para din naman yun sa sarili mo. Darating din naman yung time na ikaw mismo ang susuko kasi pagod kana sa kakaisip at kakaiyak dahil sa kanya. Madami pa namang iba dyan na mas higit pa sa kanya, subukan mo kasing ituon yung atensyon mo sa iba na pinahahalagahan ka hindi yung sa kanya na iniwan kana.

Tuesday, December 21, 2010

Recipe For Love


This is a recipe I have been trying to capture without failing, but it isn't that easy. It takes two people and two only to make it come out right. It takes a lot of time with both parties working hard to make it mix. If one stops working then it will be destroyed. This recipe is so delicate, it is much worse then making a souffle. Not only do you have to worry about it falling, but you must worry if it will last until the end. You must be very careful when mixing, so as not to include unwanted things. The blend must be all of the below contents or you will bring something from the oven that is not so pleasant. Do not let outsiders help you to mix the bowl as their karma may enter that is unwanted. Make with both of your hearts, minds, bodies and souls, and it will bring a lifetime of the two of you together as one.

Ingredients:

  • 1 cup of kisses
  • 1 Cup of caresses
  • 1 cup of loving glances
  • 1 cup of putting the other one first always
  • 1 cup of wonderful remarks to the other
  • 1 cup of pride
  • 1 cup of patience
  • 1 cup of kindness
  • 1 cup of admiration
  • 1 cup of understanding
  • 1 cup of passion
  • 1 cup of open mindedness
  • 1 cup of love

Method:

A pinch of hope, a pinch of forgivness and a pinch of help

fulness

Mix all ingredients together and live a life time filled with love for each other. If by chance any ingredient enters the mix that is unwanted, empty the bowl and start from scratch.

Bake in the oven for all time, peeking once in awhile to make sure it hasn't burned.

Serve on top of all the memories made by the two of you and enjoy for a lifetime.